For iMessage

See who you have in common

Mutuals lives inside iMessage. Add it to any conversation and instantly see every contact you both share.

Download on the App Store

How it works

1

Install & sync

Download Mutuals and sync your address book once. We store only phone numbers — no names, photos, or other contact details.

2

Add to iMessage

Open any conversation, tap the Mutuals icon in the app drawer, and send a connection request.

3

See mutual contacts

Once the other person accepts, you both instantly see every contact you have in common — and nothing else.

4

Private by design

We store phone numbers, not names or message content. Your full contact list is never shared with the other person — only the overlap is revealed to both of you.

We only work if you sync your full address book — selective sync breaks mutual matching for everyone. Read our privacy policy to see exactly what we store.